Welcome

Check out our book store schedule below and join us!

Scroll down to read our latest blog. We'd love to hear what you think!

Click here to become our friend on Facebook!




A sell-out crowd at Vroman's!

What they're saying about our new book:

"The elderly have quite a bit of wisdom, and often you'll get it whether you want it or not. "Feeding Mrs. Moskowitz & The Caregiver" is a pair of two novellas focusing on the topic of the elderly and their interactions with the people around them. 'Feeding Mrs. Moskowitz' is the story of the titular elderly lady and her encounters with a girl rapidly approaching middle age. 'The Caregiver' tells the tale of a caregiver and her job at an assisted living facility. "Feeding Mrs. Moskowitz & The Caregiver" is an enticing read that shouldn't be missed."
-- Midwest Review of Books

"The novellas are authentic, filled with believable characters and situations that resonate with our own life experiences. The stories are funny and poignant at the same time, teaching those who have not thought much about the aging process in the best way possible by fascinating and amazing us."
-- Anne M. Wyatt-Brown

"As someone who was the caregiver for two aging parents, both of whom lived into their nineties, I found Feeding Mrs. Moskowitz and The Caregiver: Two Stories by Barbara Pokras and Fran Yariv a delightful experience. It is a candid and humorous look at aging. .....It is well work reading whether one is a caregiver or not. This is a slice of life worth visiting."
-- Alan Caruba, Bookviews

"Caring for aging parents is one of the most common experiences sisters share, but few can transform their responsibility into bittersweet words of wisdom the way the Pokras sisters, Fran and Barbara, have done. This book, with its tender, funny, and revealing insights into the world of the elderly, is a must-read for every caretaker." -- Carol Saline, author of The New York Times bestseller, "Sisters"

"The novellas are beautiful little parables that are just not meant for caregivers or for the children of the elderly, bur for everyone -- as most of us will, eventually, take similar journeys to those taken by the residents of Sunset Hills, in one form or another." -- John McDonald, New York Journal of Books, award-winning novelist, screenwriter, playwright and graphic novel adaptor of the works of William Shakespeare.

Sunday, April 11, 2010

What is this thing called age?

Let's sing to the tune of, "What is This Thing Called Love? Better yet, let's talk about "age". We humans are strange creatures. We're the only creatures on the planet who count time chronologically -- that is, by "numbers."

If age is a number, why don't I feel like that number? In my case, it's a "big" number, or so it seems right now, at this moment in time. If I'm lucky enough to be around in, let's say, ten years, I'm sure to think the number I'm at now is better than that future number. Looking back, the number I was twenty years ago seemed like a big number, but not as big as the number I am right now.

I say, let's get rid of numbers. Let's substitute "seasons." We -- each of us -- gets to choose which season we are in, and we can even go backwards or forwards if we want. Just for "starters," here are some suggested "seasons." See what you think, and feel free to add your own.
  1. "The New Season" -- this begins at birth, and might go through childhood. Also called, "The Season of Innocence."
  2. When you're ready, you are free to go on to "The Learning Season." You might want to go back to this later in life. It works for the school years. Some might call it "The Growing Season."
  3. "The Hormony Season," is a synthesis of: "hormones" and "horny" sometimes, but not always, leads to "harmony." Often a lengthy and turbulent season.
  4. "The Experience Season" could follow, but again, feel free to choose and name your own seasons. You know you better that anyone else!
  5. Then there's "The Wisdom Season," or maybe "The Season of Ah-Hah!" Some of us experience a certain "wistfulness," but this season, in my opinion, is no less full than the others.

You get the idea, now. For my part, I'm not a number. I'm a first-time published author of a novella, "Feeding Mrs Moskowitz and The Caregiver: Two Stories," with my sister, Fran Yariv. I run a vacation rental business (http://www.waterfallrental.com/) along with my husband, and we married eighteen years ago when I thought I was a "big number." I'll take "seasons" over numbers any day. Care to join me?

Barbara

My Blog List

Some of our favorites to share:

  • Barbara's favorite movies: "Precious" "Inglorius Bastards" "The Orange Thief" (never released theatrically), anything by Frederick Wiseman, and "Stop Making Sense" (I worked on this!)
  • Fran likes "ALL ABOUT EVE" with Bette Davis
  • Another of Fran's favorites -- FIELDWORK by Mischa Berlinski