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What they're saying about our new book:

"The elderly have quite a bit of wisdom, and often you'll get it whether you want it or not. "Feeding Mrs. Moskowitz & The Caregiver" is a pair of two novellas focusing on the topic of the elderly and their interactions with the people around them. 'Feeding Mrs. Moskowitz' is the story of the titular elderly lady and her encounters with a girl rapidly approaching middle age. 'The Caregiver' tells the tale of a caregiver and her job at an assisted living facility. "Feeding Mrs. Moskowitz & The Caregiver" is an enticing read that shouldn't be missed."
-- Midwest Review of Books

"The novellas are authentic, filled with believable characters and situations that resonate with our own life experiences. The stories are funny and poignant at the same time, teaching those who have not thought much about the aging process in the best way possible by fascinating and amazing us."
-- Anne M. Wyatt-Brown

"As someone who was the caregiver for two aging parents, both of whom lived into their nineties, I found Feeding Mrs. Moskowitz and The Caregiver: Two Stories by Barbara Pokras and Fran Yariv a delightful experience. It is a candid and humorous look at aging. .....It is well work reading whether one is a caregiver or not. This is a slice of life worth visiting."
-- Alan Caruba, Bookviews

"Caring for aging parents is one of the most common experiences sisters share, but few can transform their responsibility into bittersweet words of wisdom the way the Pokras sisters, Fran and Barbara, have done. This book, with its tender, funny, and revealing insights into the world of the elderly, is a must-read for every caretaker." -- Carol Saline, author of The New York Times bestseller, "Sisters"

"The novellas are beautiful little parables that are just not meant for caregivers or for the children of the elderly, bur for everyone -- as most of us will, eventually, take similar journeys to those taken by the residents of Sunset Hills, in one form or another." -- John McDonald, New York Journal of Books, award-winning novelist, screenwriter, playwright and graphic novel adaptor of the works of William Shakespeare.

Friday, February 19, 2010

I still miss her!

It's been two years since our mother died. I still miss her and sometimes she appears in my dreams-alive and well. That's not to say she was easy. I never knew what to expect.

Our nicknames for her were: Mater, the "Big M" (her name was Mildred), and lastly, "the Queen" -- a name bestowed on her by her caregiver, a name the Big M loved.

What she was, was unique. She had a quick wit, and as she grew older, she became less and less politically correct. One day I wheeled her into the medical building elevator. A heavy woman entered just as the doors were about to close. The Queen looked her up and down, then said in her customary stage whisper, "There's a weight limit on this elevator!" I wanted to disappear. People pretended they didn't hear her. By the way, the Big M was a bit on the plump side herself.

I'll never forget one of the many times she was in the hospital. She was notorious for playing the call button as if it were a pinball machine. One day when the nursed failed to respond quickly enough, the Queen took matters into her own hands and called 911. "I need help," she told the person on the line. "Where are you?" they asked. "Second floor, Cedars Sinai Hospital," she replied. I think that was when my mother became my role model for being one's own advocate!

Tell me some of your favorite memories of your mother!

Best, Fran

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Some of our favorites to share:

  • Barbara's favorite movies: "Precious" "Inglorius Bastards" "The Orange Thief" (never released theatrically), anything by Frederick Wiseman, and "Stop Making Sense" (I worked on this!)
  • Fran likes "ALL ABOUT EVE" with Bette Davis
  • Another of Fran's favorites -- FIELDWORK by Mischa Berlinski